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The Tanna family's story
“Our lives changed and we began searching for help and support”
For the Tanna family, managing eight-year-old Shyla’s complex allergies is a daily challenge.
Their allergy story started two years ago when Shyla began to suffer frequent bouts of illness, her skin was very dry and she became withdrawn.
After struggling to get a GP appointment, the family booked a blood test at a private clinic and the results were startling. It showed that Shyla was allergic to all nuts (and therefore at risk of anaphylaxis), tree and grass pollen, mould and pet dander – 17 allergens in total some of which are airborne. She also has allergic eczema.
Mum Deena, says: “Our lives changed and we began searching for help and support. Even getting a basic food plan was difficult. We couldn’t find anyone to support us or give us advice.
“Within a few months, Shyla had an anaphylactic reaction and we took her to A&E for treatment. We later received a follow-up call from a paediatric allergy consultant and joined his clinic which has been a big help.
“Allergies have changed our whole life. As well as the physical effects of allergies, there is a huge mental toll. As parents, we were really struggling to get information but at the same time trying not to worry Shyla or her older brother Bayln when we couldn’t find answers.
“We were watching Shyla miss out, feel left out, and carry an emotional weight that most people don’t see.
“As parents, we were in survival mode, trying to find out everything we could. I was desperately seeking answers and at first couldn’t find any information or sources of help. I didn’t know which service I should approach. Finding a clinical team and clinicians who help us has made an enormous difference.”
Shyla’s brother Bayln, aged 11, has written a children’s book called Shyla’s Secret Sadness, along with Deena, which tells the story of Shyla, a seven-year-old girl whose allergies make everyday life feel challenging and isolating.
As her backpack grows heavier with medicines and worry, she begins to feel left out – until her big brother and friends find thoughtful ways to make her feel safe, included, and happy again.
Bayln says: “I wanted to write something that would help kids like my sister feel less alone and sad.”